“Connecting with Strangers” – An Online Soft Skills Talk Show for Students During the Pandemic

On the evening of July 20, 2021, an online talk show themed “Connecting with Strangers” took place, serving as a highly beneficial and intimate playground for students of Ho Chi Minh City University of Food Industry (HUFI). This online activity, held amidst the pandemic with the participation of famous guests and approximately 300 students across three Google Meet rooms, helped make the "stay at home" period much more meaningful.

What is “Connecting with Strangers”?

The “Connecting with Strangers” talk show is a seminar designed to guide students—especially those nearing graduation—on communication methods, starting conversations, and building relationships with new people. Additionally, the guests shared numerous tips and secrets for "winning hearts and minds" through effective communication.

Who were the program guests?

The two guests are considered reputable figures in the marketing, communication, business, and technology industries:

• Ms. Tram Vo: An expert in sales, marketing, and human resources for foreign enterprises.
• Mr. Nguyen Hoang Minh: A software engineer with an MBA. He has 8 years of experience in software consulting and 8 years as an E-commerce Director, having worked for Vingroup and currently at the MoMo application.
• Host Kha Tu Le: A charming MC with over 10 years of experience in B2B sales across sectors such as education, cosmetics, insurance, and aviation.

With their high level of expertise and practical life experience, the guests turned the talk show into a practical session, providing students with useful information for both their current studies and future careers.

Facing Reality as Early as Possible

Many students expressed concerns about how to step out of their comfort zones and gain the courage to communicate with strangers. The guests agreed that poor communication often stems from a lack of self-confidence and the fear of saying the wrong thing or being "boring". However, Mr. Minh emphasized that superior communication skills are not innate; they are the result of daily practice and interaction with many people.

Students are encouraged to confidently enter society even while still in school. By being bold and unafraid of making mistakes, students can learn from their seniors and gain toughness for the future, reducing unrealistic "rosy" expectations.

Essential Communication Notes for Students

Ms. Tram Vo shared that besides core competence, she evaluates candidates based on their attitude and mannerisms during interviews and their first days of work. Young people should demonstrate enthusiasm, an eagerness to learn, and a proactive, positive, and friendly attitude.

Mr. Hoang Minh added three basic factors that a student needs:

• Meticulousness: Research the company you are applying to. This shows respect for the employer and a serious attitude toward the job.
• Professionalism: Always respond to emails or phone calls from recruiters, whether or not you accept the interview. Breaking commitments without notice can result in losing second chances.
• Communication Skills: Strive to speak clearly and decisively about your ideas. This is a skill that improves over time with daily effort.

The Power of Listening

When asked how to avoid being "forgotten" in a group conversation, the guests shared the secret of “listening”. In communication, you do not necessarily need to be the one dominating the story. Listening allows you to remain a part of the conversation and helps you earn the respect and admiration of others.

How to Communicate Naturally and Charmingly?

To communicate with "charm," Mr. Hoang Minh offered the following advice: read books to increase your vocabulary and expression; use body language wisely and appropriately; and pay close attention to the context to adapt your words and attitude accordingly.

Conclusion

The “Connecting with Strangers” talk show, co-organized by HUFI and Host Kha Tu Le, successfully helped students learn valuable skills even while they could not attend school due to the pandemic. Such practical, free activities should be expanded and promoted further in the future.